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How to negotiate your equity offer at a private company

Most candidates don't negotiate equity at all. We explain what's actually negotiable — number of shares, vesting schedule, cliff, acceleration clauses — and how to ask.

2025-04-20 · 7 min read
Article from 2025-04-20 — valuations have moved since

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Key takeaways
  • Number of shares is the most negotiable element — typical wins are 15–40% over initial offer.
  • Less commonly negotiated but valuable: extended exercise window (5–10 years vs. 90 days), acceleration on change of control.
  • Vesting cliff is almost never negotiable. Some senior hires can drop the cliff entirely.

There's a folklore that 'startup equity isn't negotiable'. It is, especially for senior or in-demand roles. The trick is knowing what to ask for and how — equity has more dimensions than salary, and most candidates only push on one (number of shares).

Negotiable elements, in roughly decreasing order of how often candidates win

  • Number of shares: most often negotiated. Typical successful asks are 15–40% above initial offer.
  • Extended exercise window: ask for 5 or 10 years instead of the default 90 days post-departure. Costs the company nothing; saves you a fortune in optionality.
  • Acceleration on change of control: 'double-trigger' (acquisition + involuntary termination) is standard senior hire ask. 'Single-trigger' (acquisition alone) is rare and hard to get.
  • Early exercise option: lets you exercise unvested options and start the LTCG clock. Often available if you ask.
  • Vesting schedule: 3 years instead of 4 is sometimes negotiable for senior hires. 6-month cliff instead of 12 is occasionally available.

How to ask

Frame it around competing offers and market data. 'I have another offer with X shares at a similar valuation; can you stretch?' is more effective than 'I want more equity'. Companies will counter or hold firm; either is information.

If you can only push on one thing, push on the extended exercise window. It costs the company nothing today, but it can save you $50K+ if you leave the company before the next liquidity event.

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